What is truly important to you??
One of my heroes was none other than Mother Teresa. In one of her books she had mentioned how we could all live in a world of peace…only if we choose to, one person at a time. Now to put this in “your world”, have you ever really sat down and asked yourself “what is truly important to me?” When you really narrow it down to that exact “thing” you want, then it’s up to you to make it happen…. “only if you choose.” A relationship, your health, your fitness, your family, etc.. It is whatever you choose that you feel is important that you need to focus on.
I once told a client that they needed “laser beam focus.” this became a funny thing between us but I really want you to think about it. If you were to put as much energy on building something great in your life rather than tearing it down, you could be living in a life filled with miracles. But again… “Only if you choose to.” When I am with a client, its common that they just ‘vent’ all of their problems. There is an element there that is causing all of these problems. One of the main things I have learned is that almost all of us carry a belief about ourselves… or i should say a lack of belief. YOU deserve to be happy and YOU NEED to give yourself permission to be happy.
Sit down and write out what is truly important to you.
Second, ask yourself “What is stopping me from getting it?” Write it down.
Third… Use that “Laser beam focus” and plant that seed to grow in your life. You have to really want it!
Fourth… Make necessary changes (big and small) that will benefit you in making this happen. Do NOT let other people’s opinion change what you want. You are the designer of your life.
Fifth… Realize everything you are doing along the way… write it down. Give yourself appreciation for your accomplishments.
Sixth…. When you reach the point where you feel “on top of the world”…. reach up and touch God’s hands and thank him for helping you realize that YOU DO MATTER. Only if you choose to.